75 Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend

The best questions to ask your girlfriend show that you are curious about her, not just making conversation. Below are 75 of them: getting to know her, cute, deep, funny, flirty, about your relationship and a few to text when you are apart. Ask, listen to the whole answer and share your own.

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75 Questions to Ask Your Girlfriend
In this article
  1. Before you start
  2. Questions to get to know her better
  3. Cute questions to ask your girlfriend
  4. Deep questions to ask your girlfriend
  5. Funny questions to ask your girlfriend
  6. Flirty questions to ask your girlfriend
  7. Questions about your relationship
  8. Questions to text your girlfriend
  9. Turn it into a game

Before you start

  • Be genuinely curious. Follow-up questions (“Wait, what happened then?”) matter more than the list.
  • Share your answers too. Questions are a swap, not an interview.
  • Read the mood. Funny questions for a car ride, deep ones for a slow evening.

Questions to get to know her better

  1. What were you like as a kid?
  2. Who was your hero growing up?
  3. What is a hobby you dropped that you would like to pick back up?
  4. What is your favorite place you have ever been?
  5. Which friend have you known the longest?
  6. What is a book or film that changed how you think?
  7. What is your ideal way to spend a day off?
  8. What is something you are really good at that most people don’t know?
  9. What did you want to be when you grew up?
  10. What is your favorite family tradition?
  11. What is a smell that reminds you of home?
  12. What is the best compliment you have ever received?

Cute questions to ask your girlfriend

  1. What was the moment you knew you liked me?
  2. Which of our dates is your favorite so far?
  3. What is a song that reminds you of us?
  4. What is the first thing you noticed about me?
  5. What is your favorite photo of us?
  6. What is a little thing I do that makes you smile?
  7. If we had a pet together, what would we name it?
  8. What is your favorite way to spend a lazy morning together?
  9. What would be your dream surprise from me?
  10. Which nickname do you secretly like the most?
  11. What is something you want us to do together this year?

Deep questions to ask your girlfriend

  1. Who has influenced you the most?
  2. What is something you are still figuring out about yourself?
  3. What does a happy life look like to you?
  4. What is a fear you rarely talk about?
  5. When do you feel most confident?
  6. What is something from your past that still affects you?
  7. What do you need when you have had a bad day?
  8. What is a value you would never compromise on?
  9. What is the hardest thing you have ever been through?
  10. What makes you feel safe with someone?
  11. What are you proudest of?
  12. What is a part of yourself you wish more people saw?

Funny questions to ask your girlfriend

  1. What is the worst date you have ever been on (not with me)?
  2. What is the strangest thing you have searched online?
  3. Which of my outfits do you secretly hate?
  4. If you could switch lives with a celebrity for a week, who would it be?
  5. What is your most irrational fear?
  6. What is the most embarrassing song on your playlist?
  7. If I were a vegetable, which one would I be?
  8. What is the worst gift you have ever received?
  9. Which of your friends would win a reality show?
  10. What is a weird habit you have when you are alone?

Flirty questions to ask your girlfriend

  1. What was the first time you wanted to kiss me?
  2. What do I wear that you like the most?
  3. What is your favorite thing about the way I look at you?
  4. Where would you like me to take you on a surprise weekend?
  5. What is the most romantic thing someone could do for you?
  6. What is something I do that you find attractive without me knowing?
  7. What is your idea of a perfect date night in?
  8. What is a memory of us you think about when you are bored?

Questions about your relationship

  1. What do you love most about us?
  2. Is there anything you wish we did more of?
  3. How do you like to be shown love?
  4. What is one thing I could do to make your week better?
  5. What is something we have gotten better at together?
  6. How do you feel after we disagree, and what helps?
  7. Where would you like to travel with me?
  8. What does our future look like in your head?
  9. What is one tradition you would like us to start?
  10. What is something you have never asked me but always wanted to?

Questions to text your girlfriend

  1. What are you doing right now?
  2. What is the best part of your day so far?
  3. What song do you have on repeat this week?
  4. If we could teleport anywhere tonight, where would we go?
  5. What should we eat on our next date?
  6. What made you laugh today?
  7. Rate your day out of ten.
  8. What is one thing you are looking forward to this week?
  9. Send me the last photo you took.
  10. Do you miss me, honestly?
  11. What is a movie we should watch together next?
  12. What is one thing I can do to make your evening better?

Turn it into a game

To make the questions feel less like a list, play them. Take turns picking a number, or try Would You Rather questions for couples and Never Have I Ever for couples.

Duoo is an iPhone and iPad app with question games for two, including Would You Rather, Never Have I Ever and Princess Treatment. It works offline on one phone, so it is easy to take on a date. It is free to download, and a subscription with a free trial unlocks every game and category.

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Questions

What are cute questions to ask your girlfriend? +

Questions about small moments between you work best: "What was the moment you knew you liked me?", "Which of our dates was your favorite?" or "What is a song that reminds you of us?"

What are deep questions to ask your girlfriend? +

Ask about what shaped her and what she wants: "Who has influenced you the most?", "What is something you are still figuring out about yourself?" or "What does a happy life look like to you?" Choose a quiet moment and give her room to answer.

What should I ask my girlfriend over text? +

Keep it light and easy to answer: what she is doing right now, the best part of her day, a song she has on repeat, or where she would go if you could both teleport tonight.

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