70 Questions to Ask a Girl

Good questions to ask a girl are the same ones that work on anyone: easy to answer, a little unexpected and about her, not about you. Below are 70 of them: questions to get to know her, fun and random ones, questions for a girl you like, for a first date and for texting, plus a few deeper ones for when the conversation is going well.

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70 Questions to Ask a Girl
In this article
  1. A few tips first
  2. Questions to get to know her
  3. Fun and random questions to ask a girl
  4. Questions to ask a girl you like
  5. Questions to ask a girl on a first date
  6. Questions to ask a girl over text
  7. Deeper questions for when it’s going well
  8. Turn it into a game

A few tips first

  • Make it about her. Ask, then actually listen. Her answer is your next question.
  • Share your own answers. It’s a conversation, not a quiz.
  • Don’t rush to deep questions. Start light. If she asks deeper things back, follow her lead.

Questions to get to know her

  1. How would you spend a day with no plans at all?
  2. What are you into right now?
  3. Where did you grow up, and do you miss it?
  4. Which place have you visited that you would go back to tomorrow?
  5. What does your weekend usually look like?
  6. Who in your life makes you laugh the most?
  7. What is a hobby you have always wanted to try?
  8. What kind of music do you listen to when nobody else is around?
  9. What is your favorite thing about where you live?
  10. What is something that always puts you in a good mood?
  11. What were you obsessed with as a teenager?
  12. What is your go-to comfort movie?

Fun and random questions to ask a girl

  1. What is the most spontaneous thing you have ever done?
  2. If you could have any animal as a pet, what would it be?
  3. Which snack would you pick if you could only have one forever?
  4. If you were a famous artist, what kind of art would you make?
  5. What is a weird talent you have?
  6. Which decade has the best music?
  7. Which fictional character would you be best friends with?
  8. What is the worst fashion choice you have ever made?
  9. What would your perfect pizza have on it?
  10. If you could be an expert in anything overnight, what would it be?
  11. What is the funniest thing that happened to you this year?
  12. Cats or dogs, and you have to defend it?

Questions to ask a girl you like

  1. What was the highlight of your week?
  2. What is the funniest thing you saw online this week?
  3. What is something you have always wanted to try but haven’t yet?
  4. What is your idea of a really good date?
  5. What is something people often get wrong about you?
  6. What is the best compliment someone ever gave you?
  7. What are you looking forward to this month?
  8. What is something small that makes your day?
  9. If you could go anywhere this weekend, where would you go?
  10. What is one thing on your bucket list?
  11. What’s a song that you think everyone should hear?

Questions to ask a girl on a first date

  1. What is your favorite restaurant, and what do you order?
  2. What do you love about what you do?
  3. What is the last great book, show or film you got into?
  4. What is a place you would love to visit next?
  5. How do your friends describe you?
  6. What is a skill you’re learning or want to learn?
  7. What do you like doing on a Sunday?
  8. What is something that surprised you recently?
  9. What is a tradition from your family you love?
  10. What is your favorite way to spend an evening?

Questions to ask a girl over text

  1. What are you up to right now?
  2. Best thing that happened today?
  3. What are you listening to?
  4. What should I watch tonight, give me your best recommendation.
  5. What is your current comfort snack?
  6. Rate your day from one to ten.
  7. If we could grab food anywhere right now, where would you pick?
  8. What is something you are looking forward to this weekend?
  9. Send me a photo of your view right now.
  10. What is the most random thing you saw today?

Deeper questions for when it’s going well

  1. What is something you are really proud of?
  2. Who do you look up to?
  3. What makes a life feel full to you?
  4. What is something you are still figuring out?
  5. What do you know now that you wish you had known at eighteen?
  6. Where do you feel the most relaxed?
  7. What is a dream you have not told many people about?
  8. What is something you would like to change about the world?
  9. What is a memory you will never forget?
  10. What matters most to you in the people you keep close?
  11. What has been the best year of your life so far?
  12. What is something you would like to be braver about?
  13. Where do you see yourself in five years, honestly?
  14. What makes you trust someone?
  15. What is a belief you hold strongly?

Turn it into a game

Questions are easier when they come from a game. This or that questions and Would You Rather are quick and low-pressure, and the 21 questions game gives you both a fair share of asking.

Duoo is an iPhone and iPad app with question games for two or more players, including Would You Rather, Never Have I Ever and Who’s Most Likely To. It works offline on one phone. It is free to download, and a subscription with a free trial unlocks every game and category.

More lists: questions to ask a guy, questions to ask your girlfriend, questions to ask to get to know someone and games to play on a date.

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Questions

What should I ask a girl to get to know her? +

Ask about what she enjoys and what she cares about: "What do you do on a perfect day off?", "What are you into right now?" or "What is the best trip you have ever taken?" Then follow up on what she says instead of jumping to the next question.

What are good questions to ask a girl you like? +

Keep them light and personal: "What was the highlight of your week?", "What is something you have always wanted to try?" or "What made you laugh today?" A little playful is fine; a list of rapid-fire questions is not.

What questions should I avoid asking a girl early on? +

Skip questions about exes, money, her body or anything that sounds like a checklist for a relationship. Those can come later, once she has brought them up herself.

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