152 This or That Questions for Adults, Kids, Couples and Work

Want to play instead of read? The free This or That game shows one card at a time, and in two-player mode it tells you if you and your partner picked the same side. For tougher dilemmas, try our funny would you rather questions.

How to play this or that

1. Pick a category below, or mix them.
2. Read both options out loud: “Beach or mountains?”
3. Everyone answers at once. Point left for the first option, right for the second.
4. The odd one out explains their choice.
5. Move on quickly. The game is best fast.

Funny this or that questions

Quick, silly choices that get the room arguing in seconds.

1. Socks with sandals or Crocs with socks?
2. Talk like a pirate or talk like a robot?
3. Sneeze glitter or burp bubbles?
4. Fight one horse-sized duck or 100 duck-sized horses?
5. Always hiccup or always feel a sneeze coming?
6. Be a famous cat or be an unknown human?
7. Clown shoes for a year or clown nose for a year?
8. Laugh like a goose or snort like a pig?
9. Banana phone or toaster laptop?
10. Live in a bouncy castle or live in a treehouse?
11. Only whisper or only shout?
12. Pineapple on pizza or ketchup on pasta?
13. Have a pet dinosaur or have a pet dragon?
14. Wear pajamas to work or wear a suit to bed?
15. Lose your eyebrows or lose your eyelashes?
16. Waddle like a penguin or hop like a kangaroo?
17. Be stuck in an elevator with a mime or a magician?
18. Only eat with chopsticks or only eat with a spork?

This or that questions for adults

For grown-up game nights: money, work, habits and the questions that start debates.

1. Work from home or work from an office?
2. Early bird or night owl?
3. Save money or spend money?
4. Wine or beer?
5. City apartment or house in the countryside?
6. Retire early or love your job forever?
7. Text or call?
8. Dinner party or night out?
9. Netflix or read a book?
10. Tidy home or relaxed mess?
11. Big wedding or elope?
12. Cook at home or order in?
13. Plan every detail or go with the flow?
14. Gym in the morning or gym after work?
15. Coffee black or coffee with everything?
16. One big holiday or lots of weekend trips?
17. Rent or buy?
18. Smart watch or classic watch?

This or that questions for kids

Easy, clean picks for kids, classrooms and family car rides.

1. Cats or dogs?
2. Pizza or pasta?
3. Summer or winter?
4. Beach or snow?
5. Superpower: fly or superpower: be invisible?
6. Unicorn or dragon?
7. Drawing or building with blocks?
8. Cartoons or movies?
9. Chocolate or vanilla?
10. Swing or slide?
11. Pancakes or waffles?
12. Bike or scooter?
13. Dinosaurs or space?
14. Read a book or listen to a story?
15. Pirate or astronaut?
16. Rain boots or sneakers?
17. Zoo or aquarium?
18. Sing or dance?

This or that questions for couples

Sweet, slightly flirty picks for date night or a lazy evening on the couch.

1. Cuddle or spoon?
2. Movie night or dinner date?
3. Flowers or chocolate?
4. Morning kisses or goodnight kisses?
5. Love letters or love songs?
6. Beach vacation or mountain cabin?
7. Breakfast in bed or dinner by candlelight?
8. Matching outfits or matching tattoos?
9. Slow dance or road trip singalong?
10. Holding hands or arm around the shoulder?
11. First kiss or first date?
12. Surprise date or planned date?
13. Picnic or rooftop bar?
14. Pet names or real names?
15. Compliments or back rubs?
16. Stay in pajamas or dress up?
17. Cook together or order your favorite?
18. Long hug or long kiss?

This or that questions for work

Safe, easy icebreakers for team meetings, onboarding and office parties.

1. Email or Slack?
2. Morning meetings or afternoon meetings?
3. Standing desk or comfy chair?
4. Coffee or tea?
5. Headphones on or office chatter?
6. Remote or hybrid?
7. Lunch at your desk or lunch out?
8. Spreadsheets or slide decks?
9. Four-day week or longer holidays?
10. Team lunch or team trip?
11. Inbox zero or inbox chaos?
12. Video on or video off?
13. Present or write the report?
14. Early finish Friday or late start Monday?
15. Desk plant or desk snacks?
16. Big launch or steady project?

This or that questions for teens

Picks for sleepovers, youth groups and group chats.

1. TikTok or YouTube?
2. AirPods or big headphones?
3. Sleepover or party?
4. Concert or festival?
5. Text or FaceTime?
6. Hoodie or jacket?
7. Mall or movies?
8. Rom-com or horror?
9. Sneakers or boots?
10. Group chat or one-on-one?
11. Summer job or summer trip?
12. Playlist or podcast?
13. Selfie or group photo?
14. Gaming or sports?
15. Late night snacks or big breakfast?
16. Bubble tea or iced coffee?

Food this or that questions

The fastest way to find out who has questionable taste.

1. Pizza or burger?
2. Sweet or salty?
3. Fries or onion rings?
4. Tacos or burritos?
5. Sushi or ramen?
6. Ice cream or cake?
7. Breakfast or dinner?
8. Spicy or mild?
9. Pancakes or French toast?
10. Popcorn or chips?
11. Cheesecake or brownies?
12. Pasta or rice?
13. Hot chocolate or milkshake?
14. Bacon or sausage?
15. Fruit or candy?
16. Home-cooked or takeout?

Travel this or that questions

For road trips, holiday planning and the friend who never stops booking flights.

1. Plane or road trip?
2. Window seat or aisle seat?
3. Hotel or cabin?
4. Beach or city break?
5. Pack light or pack everything?
6. Plan it all or wing it?
7. Sunrise or sunset?
8. Camping or glamping?
9. Museums or food tours?
10. Train or ferry?
11. Souvenirs or photos?
12. Solo trip or group trip?
13. Hot weather or cold weather?
14. Backpack or suitcase?
15. Famous sights or hidden spots?
16. Early check-out or late check-in?

Christmas this or that questions

Holiday picks for the Christmas party, the family dinner or a classroom brain break.

1. Real tree or fake tree?
2. Hot chocolate or eggnog?
3. Elf or home Alone?
4. Wrapping paper or gift bags?
5. Snowman or snow angel?
6. Christmas Eve or Christmas Day?
7. Gingerbread or sugar cookies?
8. Ugly sweater or Christmas pajamas?
9. White lights or colorful lights?
10. Give gifts or get gifts?
11. Caroling or Christmas movies?
12. Candy canes or chocolate coins?
13. Santa or Rudolph?
14. Stockings or presents under the tree?
15. Sledding or ice skating?
16. Open one gift early or wait until morning?

Deep this or that questions

For getting to know someone, with a short answer and a longer reason behind it.

1. Be loved or be respected?
2. Know the future or change the past?
3. Be the smartest person in the room or the funniest?
4. A few close friends or a big circle?
5. Plan everything or go with the flow?
6. Honest and awkward or polite and fake?
7. Forgive quickly or never forget?
8. Money or time?
9. Fix a problem alone or ask for help?
10. A life of comfort or a life of change?

This or that questions for college students

1. Library or coffee shop?
2. 8 a.m. class or 8 p.m. class?
3. Group project or solo essay?
4. Cheap pizza or instant noodles?
5. Study abroad or stay close to home?
6. All-nighter or wake up at 5 a.m.?
7. Campus housing or off-campus apartment?
8. Dining hall or cook for yourself?
9. Big lecture or small seminar?
10. Spring break trip or a summer job?

More question games

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